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Life Isn't Fair - Wrapup
It's easy to look around and see what you haven't got, how you've been slighted.
There will always be somebody better off than you.
And if you think you have been mistreated, just take a look at the abuse the most powerful men in the world take, the Presidents of the United States.
How would you like to be in their shoes?
OK, we get it - we want just the good stuff, not the bad stuff.
But it's a package deal - you don't get to pick-and-choose.
Liberal Left Activists have worked for decades to identify a long list of Systemically Racist consequences for Blacks, including
[1], [2], [3], [4], [5],
[6], [7], [8], [9], [16]:
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- Racial Injustice is woven into the very fabric of our society, from our economy to our healthcare system to our education system
- Police brutality
- Racial profiling
- Racial disparities
- Colonialism
- Slavery
- Jim Crow
- Structural past inequalities
- Racial songs
- Racial epithets
- White supremacy rallys
- Lower housing equity
- Lower wealth
- 40% of the homeless population
- Gentrification of our cities
- Black mothers are far more likely to die in childbirth
- Mass incarceration
- Environmental racism
- Flint water crisis (poisoned water)
- War on drugs
- Polluted air
- Particle pollution
- Child asthma
- Residential segregation
- Economic disenfranchisement
- Unequal access to housing
- Segregation
- Limited political power
- All walks of life
- Marginalized groups face particular hardships
- Black LGBTQ people must contend with homophobia, transphobis, misogyny, and anti-queer discrimination and violence
- The wider LGBTQ community reinscribes white privilege
- Black queer people may face homophobia, bias, bullying, or violence within Black communities
- Queer Black and Latino people are at risk for more suicide attempts
- Depression and anxiety among queer Black youth is intensified by racial disparities
- Black communities are marginalized
- Black communities are oppressed
- Discrimination
- Housing inequities
- Healthcare inequities
- Marginal and oppressed subjects
- Connection between sports and past racial subjugation, namely slavery
- Sports play an important role in the maintenance of white privilege and wealth
- Sports can reproduce unequal power relations
- Systemic racism is pernicious at home, in society, and at work
- Black applicants are less likely to get interviews for jobs
- Applicants with ethnically sounding names are less likely to be called for interviews
- Black workers face microaggressions, stereotyping, discrimination, and/or hostile work enironments
- Black workers face retribution if they speak up or file complaints
- Racial power imbalances place Black workers at financial, social and emotional disadvantages
- Black workers earn 38% of what their white counterparts make
- Black women earn 34% of what their white counterparts make
- Black women lack the most power and wealth due to their genderized and racilized position
- Black people face added emotional, mental and physical labor in order to more easily navigate their work environments
- Black people put in extra or invisible labor, but get compensated less for their work
- Institutional racism
- Individual racism
- Prejudice
- Racism
- Blacks are constantly seeing Black bodies on social media and the 24-hour news cycle
- The ubiquity of racism on our phones and televisions can be traumatic and triggering
- Racism has psychological consequences including depression, anxiety, and other debilitating conditions
- Racism leads to post-traumatic stress disorder and substance use disorders
- Racism stress contributes to cardiovascular disease
- Black mental health issues are 20% higher due to racism stress
- Black mental health care is less accessible, biased, and misdiagnoses
- Black people are overdiagnosed with schizophrenia
- Black people with mental illnesses are at particular risk when it comes to policing
- There is a history of Black lives not mattering
- The median white family has 41 times more wealth than the median Black family
- Racism causes voter suppression, voter intimidation, unfair voter ID and gerrymandering
- One in 13 Black people are unable to vote because of U.S. laws
- Counties with higher numbers of Black people have fewer polling sites and poll workers
- Black people wait longer in lines to vote
- Black people are suppressed when their voter registrations do not match official state documents
- Public school systems remain separate and unequal
- Black students attend schools that receive less funding and provide a lower quality of education
- Funding is directly tied to race, not poverty
- Black students have less exposure to advanced classes and have lower high school completion rates
- Black students attend schools where just over half of the teachers meed certification and licenture requirements
- Blackness is criminalized
- Black students ae expelled three times more than white students
- Black people live in neighborhoods where access to healthcare is limited and quality is lower
- COVID-19 has had a disproportionate impact on Black people
- Black people are infected three times more that white people
- Chronic stress is brought on by racial discrimination, or place-based risk
- COVID-19 is not an equal opportunity killer
- The criminal justice system generates, supports, and sustains racial inequalities
- Mass incarceration is a racial caste system
- Black people are disproportionately affected by disparities in policing, sentencing decisions, selective law enforcement, and police brutality
- Black adults are 5.9 times as likely to be incarcerated than whites
- Blacks are three times more likely to be executed under the death penalty
- Black people are almost four times more likely to be arrested for having marijuana than white people
- The criminal justice system assumes Black guilt, disproportionately punishes, and sets up Black communities to feed into the prison system
- Black people are racialized, stereotyped, and victimized in public spaces
- Black people are discriminated against or racially profiled when they shop, work, exercise, run errands, get an education, or pursue recreational interests
- Black people questioned, harassed, and profiled when engaging in everyday innocuous activities
- Black people are often viewed as intruders, trespassers, or criminals
- Black people are viewed suspiciously at banks
- Financial institutions red-line, refuse services, deny loans, and raise interest rates for Blacks
- Stereotypes of Black people as lawbreakers position Black customers as threatening when they enter banks
- Racial biases in banking culture are deeply embedded, even when the bank employees themselves are Black
- One’s level of education, occupation, or personal wealth provides little protection when banking while Black
- Black people feel unwelcome, insulted, treated differently, or feared in restaurants and stores
- 59% of Blacks are treated less fairly than white Americans in shopping malls and other stores
- Racial profiling makes shopping trips stressful and unpleasant for Black people
- Black crewmembers experience extra, invisible work that being a Black person in the airline industry entails
- The airline industry has developed as a "white space" regarding who belongs and doesn’t belong in the cockpit
- Black people are treated like second-class citizens
- Blacks are incarcerated at more than five times the rate of whites
- I can, if I wish, arrange to be in the company of people of my race most of the time.
- I can avoid spending time with people whom I was trained to mistrust and who have learned to mistrust my kind or me.
- If I should need to move, I can be pretty sure of renting or purchasing housing in an area which I can afford and in which I would want to live.
- I can be reasonably sure that my neighbors in such a location will be neutral or pleasant to me.
- I can go shopping alone most of the time, fairly well assured that I will not be followed or harassed by store detectives.
- I can turn on the television or open to the front page of the paper and see people of my race widely and positively represented.
- When I am told about our national heritage or about "civilization," I am shown that people of my color made it what it is.
- I can be sure that my children will be given curricular materials that testify to the existence of their race.
- If I want to, I can be pretty sure of finding a publisher for this piece on white privilege.
- I can be fairly sure of having my voice heard in a group in which I am the only member of my race.
- I can be casual about whether or not to listen to another woman's voice in a group in which she is the only member of her race.
- I can go into a book shop and count on finding the writing of my race represented, into a supermarket and find the staple foods that fit with my cultural traditions, into a hairdresser's shop and find someone who can deal with my hair.
- Whether I use checks, credit cards, or cash, I can count on my skin color not to work against the appearance that I am financially reliable.
- I could arrange to protect our young children most of the time from people who might not like them.
- I did not have to educate our children to be aware of systemic racism for their own daily physical protection.
- I can be pretty sure that my children's teachers and employers will tolerate them if they fit school and workplace norms; my chief worries about them do not concern others' attitudes toward their race.
- I can talk with my mouth full and not have people put this down to my color.
- I can swear, or dress in secondhand clothes, or not answer letters, without having people attribute these choices to the bad morals, the poverty, or the illiteracy of my race.
- I can speak in public to a powerful male group without putting my race on trial.
- I can do well in a challenging situation without being called a credit to my race.
- I am never asked to speak for all the people of my racial group.
- I can remain oblivious to the language and customs of persons of color who constitute the world's majority without feeling in my culture any penalty for such oblivion.
- I can criticize our government and talk about how much I fear its policies and behavior without being seen as a cultural outsider.
- I can be reasonably sure that if I ask to talk to "the person in charge," I will be facing a person of my race.
- If a traffic cop pulls me over or if the IRS audits my tax return, I can be sure I haven't been singled out because of my race.
- I can easily buy posters, postcards, picture books, greeting cards, dolls, toys, and children's magazines featuring people of my race.
- I can go home from most meetings of organizations I belong to feeling somewhat tied in, rather than isolated, out of place, outnumbered, unheard, held at a distance, or feared.
- I can be pretty sure that an argument with a colleague of another race is more likely to jeopardize her chances for advancement than to jeopardize mine.
- I can be fairly sure that if I argue for the promotion of a person of another race, or a program centering on race, this is not likely to cost me heavily within my present setting, even if my colleagues disagree with me.
- If I declare there is a racial issue at hand, or there isn't a racial issue at hand, my race will lend me more credibility for either position than a person of color will have.
- I can choose to ignore developments in minority writing and minority activist programs, or disparage them, or learn from them, but in any case, I can find ways to be more or less protected from negative consequences of any of these choices.
- My culture gives me little fear about ignoring the perspectives and powers of people of other races.
- I am not made acutely aware that my shape, bearing, or body odor will be taken as a reflection on my race.
- I can worry about racism without being seen as self-interested or self-seeking.
- I can take a job with an affirmative action employer without having my co-workers on the job suspect that I got it because of my race.
- If my day, week, or year is going badly, I need not ask of each negative episode or situation whether it has racial overtones.
- I can be pretty sure of finding people who would be willing to talk with me and advise me about my next steps, professionally.
- I can think over many options, social, political, imaginative, or professional, without asking whether a person of my race would be accepted or allowed to do what I want to do.
- I can be late to a meeting without having the lateness reflect on my race.
- I can choose public accommodation without fearing that people of my race cannot get in or will be mistreated in the places I have chosen.
- I can be sure that if I need legal or medical help, my race will not work against me.
- I can arrange my activities so that I will never have to experience feelings of rejection owing to my race.
- If I have low credibility as a leader, I can be sure that my race is not the problem.
- I can easily find academic courses and institutions that give attention only to people of my race.
- I can expect figurative language and imagery in all of the arts to testify to experiences of my race.
- I can choose blemish cover or bandages in "flesh" color and have them more or less match my skin.
- Missing White Woman Syndrome
- Betsy Ross Flag
- Confederate Flag
- Confederate monuments and memorials
- Confederate military base names
- Halloween parade marginalizes students of color
- Infrastructure is racist
- Roads are purposely built to divide Black and White sections of town
- Bridges are built with low clearances to prevent Black people from getting to the beaches
- Railroads are purposely built through Black neighborhoods
- Heavy trucks are purposely routed through Black neighborhoods
- Pollution from rail and heavy truck traffic cause pollution, which causes Black children to have the highest asthma rates
- Systemic Racism causes obesity in the Black community
That's quite a list of how horrible it is for a Black person to live in America.
The intent is to emphasize that if you are Black your situation is hopeless, you are a Victim.
It makes you wonder why Black people are flocking here from other nations, just become Racial Victims.
Unless the narrative isn't true.
In reality, there are many groups that could obsess over being Victims including:
- United States life expectancy is ranked #46 in the world, 6.18 years shorter than the best, Hong Kong [10]
- Women in the United States live 5.04 years longer than men [10]
- Left-handed people find things more difficult to do and/or less available in left-handed versions [11]
- Older Lefties remember they were forced to write right-handed in school.
Ruler to the backs of hands if they picked up a pencil with the left hand.
- Telephone boxes (receiver and coin slot on right)
- TV & Hi Fi controls
- Record Player Arms
- Automobile gearshift is on the right side
- Writing (the left hand/arm covers what has been written, and smears the ink).
Some lefties even write upside down, from right-to-left to avoid this problem.
- Lefties, if so inclined, could take offense at their nickname, "South Paws".
- Scissors
- Trousers with one back pocket
- Trouser Zips
- Raising a right-handed child, trying to teach them the opposite of what is "natural" to you
- Shuffling standard playing cards (the card's value is shown in the upper left corner, and upside down in the lower right corner).
Specially printed cards display the value in all four corners.
- Polo (left-handed players not allowed!)
- Hockey (left hand players not allowed in Field Hockey)
- Writing in binders/files
- Handshakes are traditionally right-handed.
If a lefty tries to use their more natural left hand it causes confusion and makes people feel uncomfortable.
- Standard blood-pressure cuffs can only be inflated with your right hand
- Standard cervical (neck) collars can only be pushed across with the right hand, not pulled with the left.
- Cheque book stubs
- Pens on chains in Banks
- Cash dispensing machines
- Ticker barriers on underground (ticket has to be put in with right hand)
- Computer mouse
- Computer number keypads (on right)
- Dining in restaurants (bump elbows with right-handed diners)
- Left-handed baseball gloves, golf clubs, banjos and guitars are all hard to find or must be custom made,
can be more expensive, and especially if you live in a small town have to be special ordered
- Left-handed people can be more accident prone (right handed equipment)
- But hey, International Left-Handers Day is celebrated on August 13 each year 🙃
There are numerous other social, health and work impacts that equal the long list of Liberal Left Democrat lists for their Victim groups.
Maybe some day Liberal Left Democrats will climb on the Lefty bandwagon ?!?!
- Short people [12], [13], [14]
- People like to pat you on the head
- They also really like to call you cute
- People call you shorty.
- People tell you to stand up when you're already standing up.
- People refer to you as vertically challenged.
- Your pants cost $30 more than everyone else's because you have to get them hemmed.
- You can't reach half the shelves in your apartment.
- You need some to put your bag up in the airplane overhead.
- Larger children are often physically dominant.
even as an adult this to some degree This can carry over as an adult to being used to getting not your way,
to lower confidence, and to lower social standing.
- Standing-room-only concerts are the worst.
- Taking pictures is a nightmare.
It takes several takes to convince your taller friend that
1) they should not bend down to take a photo with you and 2) they do not look like a yeti next to you.
- Grocery shopping is an exercise in flirting. Why do supermarket shelves go up so high?
- You might as well not bother owning an Ottoman because your feet will never reach it.
- Women have to wear heels to work.
- People constantly want to pick you up.
- You look up to everyone.
- Holding hands is awkward.
- People use your shoulder as their personal armrest and sometimes your head as a headrest.
- You get stuck in the middle seat on road trips
- You will never be a supermodel.
- Seeing over the steering wheel.
- Short men tend to be poorer
- Short men are seen as less powerful
- Women prefer taller men
- Shorter people feel less secure and likeable
- Taller men live longer
- Tall doors can't be shut since the bolt is out of reach; same with windows.
- Shoulder pains to talk with a tall person
- Microphone adjustment while addressing audience
- People don’t take you as serious in certain situations, and may try and assert dominance over you.
- People who wear large clothes and shoe sizes - less selection and availability, and higher price.
- People who are less attractive - lower chance of finding a mate, and fewer social opportunities
- People who are less intellectually gifted - do poorer in school, and find fewer job opportunities that pay well
- People who have accents or are from certain geographical areas - can be viewed as dumb
- People who graduate from less prestigious schools - you may be "less" if not Ivy League
- People who are less gifted in sports - are viewed less favorably.
- Introverted/shy people may have a lower chance of finding a mate, have fewer friends, and not fit in well in social settings
- Fat people ... well, you know.
- Skinny people ... ditto
- People with glasses
- People who s-s-s-stutter
So we should easily agree, life isn't fair.
Yes, to any of us.
But looking around for what you haven't got isn't a path to success for anybody.
In fact, it is SUCH an obstacle to success that one of the Bible's ten commandments addresses it:
"Thou Shall Not Covet"
Exodus 20:17
The Hebrew word translated "covet" is chamad (חמד) which is translated into English as "covet", "lust", and "strong desire".
The Bible contains numerous warnings and examples of negative consequences for lusting or coveting.
Instead, the Bible emphasizes hard work, accountability, truthfulness, and helping others as the means of achievement and success in your life.
Don't Take The Bait
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